the boujee duck

Travel, money, and real life — tips for living well on your own terms

Year: 2026

Stop Waiting Until You’re Debt-Free to Travel. Do Both. Here’s How.

I need to say something that most personal finance content refuses to say out loud: waiting until you’re debt-free to enjoy your life is not a strategy. It is a bet. A bet that your willpower is unlimited, your circumstances…

What Nobody Tells You About the First 30 Days of Caregiving

Nobody handed me a guide. But honestly? I didn’t think I needed one. I’m a pharmacist. When my parent’s health changed overnight, I did what pharmacists do — I sprinted. I knew the medications. I understood the diagnoses. I could…

Why Caregivers Need to Travel — and How to Actually Make It Happen

The conversation goes like this: someone asks if I’ve traveled recently. I start to answer, then I catch myself. There’s this moment of calculation — can I say yes without sounding like I abandoned my responsibilities? If you’re a family…

I Paid $168 to Fly Emirates First Class to the Maldives. Yes, You Read That Correctly.

Let me set the scene. A car pulls up to my house in the DMV. A driver gets out, takes my bags, and opens the door for me. I slide in. We head to Dulles. Upon arrival, I am escorted…

Stop Cashing Out Your Points for Statement Credits. I’m Begging You.

You have credit card points sitting in at least three different accounts right now. You know you do. You also have absolutely no idea what they’re worth or whether you should be doing something with them. You are not alone….